Constance Hanstedt is an author, poet, and business owner living in Northern California. Her poetry has received numerous awards and has appeared in the Comstock Review, Calyx, Rattle,the Naugatuck River Review,and many other literary journals. Her poem "Ode to Beige" was published in Diane Lockward's The Crafty Poet (2013), a collection of poems, prompts, craft tips, and interviews.

Don't Leave Yet: A Daughter's Plea to a Mother with Alzheimer's is Constance's first book. It was a finalist in the Pacific Northwest Writers Association memoir competition in 2011.

about DON'T LEAVE YET

Don't Leave Yet, How My Mother's Alzheimer's Opened My Heart is Constance Hanstedt's journey toward independence, self-assurance, and connectedness as she cares for her mother who begins losing her identity through Alzheimer's.

As a young girl in the Midwest, Constance was consumed by fear: of her parents, especially her disapproving mother, and of social situations. Along with a denigrating Catholic school experience, she embraced perfectionism as a substitute for love.

Just as she struggled to be a perfect child, Constance tried to be the perfect adult daughter when her mother, who lived two thousand miles away, developed Alzheimer's. Constance was forced to confront her fears.

As Don't Leave Yet recounts her mother's unrelenting bitterness toward life coupled with her losing memories of it, Constance discovers something beyond familial duty–compassion. After all, she states, "I knew a thing or two about fear."